Quite deliberately, I don’t want to mince matters. There is already enough literature, beating about the bush. You are only able to change something if you call a spade a spade!
I hope you like my natural, simple style. Each one of us has got his own story and likes to see many things differently, having made special experiences, but, basically, we realize only by exchanging experiences that we are not alone and that we are able to accomplish almost everything.